A deeper understanding of ourselves and the process of change in psychotherapy.
Monday, January 12, 2015
Meaning to get away from intellectualization
And avoid word traps,
I sailed across the sea to search for the
Transmission beyond the teachings;
Went on pilgrimages till my sandals broke
And found water in the clear stream,
The moon in the sky.
- Kakua (1143 - ?) courtesy of dailyzen.com
Anna Freud considered intellectualization to be an important part of adolescent development. Stepping away from our feelings and into our thoughts can bring a sense of calm and order to an emotionally chaotic world. A situation that is particularly evident in adolescence. A defense mechanism protects but does not allow for learning. We create our own word traps to justify our reactions and build up our self esteem. Learning becomes a liability and evidence of incompetence.When we catch ourselves justifying our behavior we move from being defensive to being curious. The shift to curiosity is necessary for our pilgrimage to begin.
The search for transmissions beyond teachings is the acquisition of wisdom. Every day is a pilgrimage of sorts. We step through so many moments distracted by our thoughts and preoccupied by our desires. When we return to the present moment- with the simple act of the in breath-we shift into our pilgrimage. Even if it is for a brief moment, the act of returning allows the moon in the sky and the water in the clear stream to become our guides to enlightenment.
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