Saturday, April 3, 2021

 

The bird’s path, winding far,

Is right before you. 

Water of the Dokei Gorge,

You return to the ocean,

I to the mountain.

- Hofuku Seikatsu (d. 976)

 

 

The challenges of this past year are unprecedented. We were exposed to a life ending virus and instead of gathering to support each other we had to isolate ourselves from the world. The shift to teletherapy was the only way to continue providing help while we complied with the mandates from the government. It was the beginning of a new path for both of us. Psychotherapy is unique in bringing the known and unknown into the same space. The bird’s path before us holds what is familiar and strange. When we come upon a new thought or a strong feeling we can pause and share our experiences. The dialog will always produce a narrative that can bring a new and deeper understanding for my client. The river in Dokei Gorge is constant with an ever-changing flow of water. Our regularly scheduled meetings become a constant space for the ever-changing flow of experience. Even as we sit in our separate homes, the video connection allows that space to exist. We have been able to continue our journey on this far and winding path in these uncertain times.

  The bird’s path, winding far, Is right before you.   Water of the Dokei Gorge, You return to the ocean, I to the mountain. - Hof...