That which was fixed, moves;
the hard becomes soft.
The earth is like waves,
my house like a boat.
A time of dread,
but also of charm:
Wind bells chime without rest,
though there’s no wind
-Kokan shiren
Strong feelings color the world in singular shades. Our
thoughts tend to be more encompassing, and we are left with the assumption of a
world that is good or bad. To hold all the different feelings in mind is the
work of mindful reflection. Our capacity to know the hard and soft and manage
the waves of day-to-day life requires practice. My clients take their place on
the couch or chair, and we consider all the parts of their lives with careful consideration
of the dread and the charms that rise and fall without rest. We work together
in the analytic space to deepen our understanding and appreciation of their
rich and nuanced life that offers endless possibilities so that what appears to
be fixed moves and evolves in the dynamic context of our continual growth and
development.
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