When this mind is clear and bright
And is not covered over,
Then you are not very different
From the sages.
If you allow no wavering
From this clarity, and do not
Let it change,
And do not cling to it,
And do not neglect it:
This is learning.
Just protect it all the time
And do not damage its clarity
- Luo Hongxian (1504-1564) courtesy of dailyzen.com
A fundamental tool in psychotherapy is insight. When someone
understands the reasons why they react in ways that are self-destructive they
can develop healthier ways of managing their lives. A wonderful moment in
therapy occurs when clients have a unique thought or idea about themselves. We
spend time appreciating the new insight and clarifying the meanings it brings
to our work. The experience itself is an example of a clear and bright mind. We
join in a collective effort to protect it without clinging or neglect. It
becomes a significant experience in the learning process. The self confidence
that accompanies insight is very powerful and becomes a critical force in
making important changes.
The learning that comes from within us is the learning of
sages. In therapy we allow no wavering from the clarity of insight. That
becomes the best path for deep and substantial change.
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